Last month, a dear friend sent me this picture, which linked to this article, “Why Feminism and Christianity Can’t Mix”, by Kristen Clark:
That’s a pretty polarizing image that begs for a response, don’t you think?!
The blog Girl Defined has the tagline, “getting back to God’s design,” so my first impression was that Kristen Clark and The Beautiful Kingdom Warriors share a passion for the very same thing, and yet our primary messages are drastically different. This is a testament to the diversity of thought within Christianity and how beliefs are shaped by personal experiences, relationships, community, cultures, socialization and more. We are both sincere Christians, passionate for God’s Kingdom and God’s design to reign supreme. We are also both defensive against what we perceive to be heresy that impedes God’s will.
Fundamentally, the difference between Kristen Clark’s and my ideology comes down to our respective Biblical interpretation of gender roles. By “God’s design,” Kristen means that in the Genesis narrative, God created man to be “head” and woman to be man’s “helper.” There is a hierarchy with God over Christ, Christ over men, and men over women and children. Men have authority and women submit to men. Though men and women are of equal value, their roles are different. This is the teaching of complementarian (i.e. patriarchal) theology, which is explained thoroughly in this video by Pastor John Piper (one of the founders of the Center for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood. Kristen links to a CBMW review of “Jesus Feminist” by Sarah Bessey in the comments section, with the explanation that she respects the theologians and writers on that site.), in which he says,
The intention with the word “complementarian” is to locate our way of life between two kinds of error: on the one side would be the abuses of women under male domination, and on the other side would be the negation of gender differences where they have beautiful significance. Which means that, on the one hand, complementarians acknowledge and lament the history of abuses of women personally and systemically, and the present evils globally and locally in the exploitation and diminishing of women and girls. And, on the other hand, complementarians lament the feminist and egalitarian impulses that minimize God-given differences between men and women and dismantle the order God has designed for the flourishing of our life together.
So Piper would lament feminism and egalitarianism (the Christian theology that God created man and woman equal, with shared authority; see this article or this one or this video, all from respected and notable theologians, for summaries of egalitarian theology) as ideologies that “dismantle God’s design.” Often, egalitarians also identify as feminists due to the shared goal of demolishing patriarchy, which egalitarians see as a heresy in opposition of God’s design and will for humanity. Egalitarians believe that God created man and woman in His image (literal translation of ezer being “corresponding strength” rather than “helper”), gave both authority over creation, and hierarchy came as a result of the curse in Genesis 3. Throughout the Bible there are women functioning outside of complementarian gender roles, and in the New Testament we see the Holy Spirit falling on both men and women, and women serving alongside men in leadership in the early church. Here is a good response to John Piper’s masculine view of Christianity.
While Christians have always held different views on many theological issues from the advent of the Church, it is common for complementarians to treat their view of gender roles as a critical aspect of the Gospel and to besmirch their egalitarian brothers and sisters with accusations of insincerity and rebellion. The Whartburg Watch wrote a post this year called, “Owen Strachan, CBMW, John Piper and David Platt: Gender Whackiness on the Rise” demonstrating this trend of elevating gender issues to be on par with the Gospel.
But back to Kristen’s polarizing image and characterizations of feminism. Is it true that at it’s root, feminism is devoid of God? If so, why are so many Christians identifying as feminists?
First of all, it is true that “feminism wears many hats” and cannot be flatly defined, in the same way that Christianity comes in many forms, traditions and political leanings. For example, Baptists. There are over 1,400 Baptist denominations in the United States. To some who hear the word “Baptist,” there is a visceral, biological response because of their negative experiences with Baptists, who can be judgmental, unloving and legalistic. I have personally known Baptists to gossip, to be gluttonous and proud. It can be controversial to bring up the topic of Baptists. It can be polarizing to identify yourself as a Baptist. So it is probably best not to identify with that word. Just call yourself a Christian!
See what I did there? I could change “Baptists” to “Pentecostals,” or “Episcopalians,” “Methodists,” “Congregationalists,” or “Presbyterians” for the same effect. And if I really did believe that Baptists were misguided and I wanted to deter others from becoming Baptists, I could utilize that tactic. Playing word games doesn’t really prove anything. The fact is, there are no perfect denominations, political parties, or social movements. But there are lots of social activists making positive change in the world towards values that I believe are in line with God’s redemption work. Christians can partner with environmentalists, humanitarians, economists, social workers, politicians, educators, health professionals, counselors, scientists, and even feminists, in the work of redeeming God’s creation to it’s pre-curse state. A feminist, atheist, Democrat, you-fill-in-the-blank is a person created in God’s image and loved dearly by God…I personally couldn’t call any imago Dei “devoid of God.” There is common grace among all of humankind. And has the Bible already solved all of the world’s problems and restored us to God’s design and will for humanity? Clearly there is much work to be done, and Christ has given us that work to do. Do I agree on all issues that all feminists tout? No. Do I agree that patriarchy is from the curse and has no place in Christ’s redeemed Kingdom? Yes.
Among many conservative Christians, the word “feminist” is spit out with disdain and horror. Feminists are accused by conservative pundits and pastors of ruining our country with their liberal agendas. They are compared to militants who see their gender as superior – “feminazis.” I am not familiar with the categorizations that Kristen uses to describe feminists. Her primary attention goes to addressing “equality feminists” though, so that is what I would like to respond to.
Like Kristen, I was a complementarian for nearly thirty years. I respected the same theologians and teachings that she points to in her writings. I won’t go into detail about my change to egalitarianism, as I already posted that story here. In short, it was at God’s prompting that I began reading about women in ministry and egalitarian theology, and I became convinced that the complementarian theology of gender roles was wrong.
I didn’t come to feminism through a desire to usurp the authority of men. I came to egalitarianism (I believe through God’s direction) and some of my conservative Christian friends began cautioning me about the slippery slope that I was on, and began jokingly referring to me as a feminist. Not because I was arguing for abortion rights or burning my bras, but because I was asking questions about gender roles in the Church. “Feminist” is a slur in the context of my upbringing. Looking back, I understand that this negative response can be a powerful deterrent to keep group members from challenging the status quo of patriarchy. It didn’t take me long to adopt the title feminist, as I couldn’t shake it and I was becoming more and more impassioned to see change in the world for women who are marginalized and abused by systems of patriarchy.
Kristen Clark’s term, equality feminism, sounds to me like a euphemism for egalitarianism. I believe she is using this term, which is considered deviant in conservative Christian circles, to paint egalitarianism in sinister terms.
I began to see that “fighting theological battles” (i.e. blogging) like egalitarianism vs. complementarianism is critical to liberating women and girls around the world who suffer the most from the systems of patriarchy and poverty and war, etc. Becky and I share articles every day on our FB page detailing the horrors and injustices of the world’s most vulnerable inhabitants. If it is feminist to care about these issues, then yes, I’m a feminist. For important reference points on gender issues around the world, here are two excellent articles:
We need feminism – Rachel Held Evans
Christian Compassion or Complicity: The Abuse and Gendercide of God’s Daughters – Dr. Mimi Haddad
And in thinking about the roots of feminism, which Kristen Clark says are devoid of God, it is a fact that many of the earliest feminists were Christians who were trying to improve the lives of impoverished, disenfranchised, suffering women and children of their day. The blog Making a Track, by Rev. Jonathan Inkpin, celebrates the lives of early Christian feminists and is an excellent resource for learning about inspiring Beautiful Kingdom Warriors.
I am going to leave off with a comment that I found under Kristen Clark’s article from a wonderful Beautiful Kingdom Warrior who took the time to advise her Christian sisters in the better way, skipping right over the references to feminism (i.e. egalitarianism?) and getting to the heart of the matter–gender roles:
Thank you for visiting The Beautiful Kingdom Warriors! Please “like” our Facebook page where we post articles every day regarding gender issues from around the world and the church. God bless!
This is a great explanation of the “big picture”. A very useful resource. Thank you for writing it.
This is an excellent post and I look forward to digging in further. Rob
The ending quote was: “My advice to Christian women is to marry a man who will be a friend, not a ruler.” Why must it be *either/or*? Why not marry a man who will be a friend AND a ruler. After all, earthly marriage is the very image of the ultimate marriage which is between God and His bride, the church. God is our ruler AND our friend. Works beautifully. He, laying down His life for His bride, edifying His bride, lifting her up, purifying her, etc. While ruling the union with love, truth, grace, and strength… while she sees Him worthy of her love, trust, respect, service (help) and submission. Why not allow the earthly image God created (human marriage) truly reflect the ultimate heavenly reality? That’s the way it was designed by Him after all.
I just replied to your questions finally!! Sorry to keep you waiting so long! Happy New Year. 🙂
Nancy, I am sorry to have neglected your comment for so long! I live in Maine, which means my lively hood is tied to summer tourism and things get pretty hairy in July and August! You ask a great question. I am thinking about using your comment as a jumping off point in a future post, and will be sure to reply here again if I do so that you get a notification. For now, let me send a link to an article that I believe answers your question (Isn’t husband-as-ruler God’s design?) from an egalitarian perspective. God bless!
Forgot to paste the link: https://equalityinchrist.wordpress.com/2014/04/04/examples-of-top-down-processing-in-complementarian-theology/
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I love this post. I’ve been reading GirlDefined for a while as I’m desperate to find advice for me as a single girl living as Christian. There really isn’t much out there for single female christians so Kirsten and Bethany were a breathe of fresh air… until I kept reading their posts. Their emphasis on marriage and the importance of their husband’s role as head makes me feel like a bad christian for not been convinced marriage is for me. Finding this post has been a relief and restored my self-confidence that as I figure out what God has in store for me. Thank you.
I would also love your opinion on my blog, CounterCultural. CounterCouture. Thank you 😀 xx
I am so happy that you found our blog and that you were encouraged by it! Keep on keeping on! I will check out your blog. 🙂
Thank you so much 😀
I must ask a question; you make an interesting statement at the beginning of the post:
“This is a testament to the diversity of thought within Christianity and how beliefs are shaped by personal experiences, relationships, community, cultures, socialization and more.”
Do you believe it is God’s will for the foundation of our lives to be built upon personal experiences, relationships, community, cultures, and more? I believe it is God’s intent for us to build our lives solely upon His word. If you are living and believing based on the whims and ideas of others opinions, then how are you distinguishing between right and wrong?
You stated in this post that you and the girls from Girl Defined are both followers of Jesus, but it is very clear that the core of feminism is self – not Jesus Christ. I really can’t see how someone can live a life that is both feministic and Christ-centered – because feminism is about the exaltation of the female (and not Jesus). The Christian life is all about Jesus, and no movement that works to defy His design will be able to stand before His word – the concept of feminism literally falls apart at the seems when our hearts are aligned with His word.
I would not be surprised at all if the “Christian” feminists one day wake up and decide that they no longer agree with anything the Bible says. Someday y’all may very well wake up and go pro-abortion, fight for gay rights, and leave your walk with Him behind. Of course, I pray so very much that such will not be the case for you girls, and that you will instead turn to Him in this area of your life.
Thank you for your questions, Cassidy! I just replied in a post: https://thebeautifulkingdomwarriors.wordpress.com/2016/12/27/qa-on-christian-feminism/
Happy New Year!
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This is such a beautiful article. I always identified as a theist, but never as Christian, because for me it was “Christianity = patriarchy”. The only Christianity I was exposed to was Eastern Orthodoxy and I always thought of Catholics as progressive, modern and something I would like to be. I didn’t know Protestantism even existed and especially not non-denominational Christianity. I am so happy that the internet and YouTube exist.
Now that you explained and cited sources that egalitarianism is a Christian value, I am getting one more step towards Christianity, thank you!
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Hi Ana! Thank you so much for leaving this comment, I am encouraged and blessed to know this post helped you. Christianity truly is beautiful, when it looks like Jesus. ❤